Dani
Not so long ago I wrote a blog about a scale of Self Awareness and explain a bit deeper why I separate myself from that greedy group of 'having people' who have lost connection to their Soul and marching over everyone to follow their never-ending desire.
I wrote a lot to highlight the differences and to lift up and support the real ones, especially the MEN who dare to stand and follow their dreams, who dare to live from their heart. You know the one who provides, protects, and leads. THE MAN.
Long time back I was working for a fun airlines back in Europe and Dani was a first officer on that time. He was Mr. Handsome, the tall boy from the cockpit, who is funny, intelligent and - surprisingly - very humble. The perfect one.
I also had a wonderful girl colleague, Adri, who was just like a doll, beauty and adorable, full of love and kindness. When we heard that they found each other, there was a feeling in my heart that life is back on track, because something just got right. The balance in restored, and hope returned. And I was not the only one who felt that.
Couple of months later, their path separated, and I remember how the whole airlines were working to put them back together. After all, it was not just a simple fairy tale, but it was our hope that truth still exists. So it does.
They got married - the perfect wedding. They did not rush anything, they waited to step forward slowly to flavor each new event with pace. Not to much fancy, but everything in grace. The twins arrived couple of years later and they became not just a perfect couple but a perfect family. You know the one, with no drama, no showoff, just humble and the beauty and harmony was so touching, that even if you have been surrounded by Evil, you knew, that there has been hope, there has been harmony and beauty in this world.
When I arrived back from the Middle East, there was a short period of time when I was still flying but in this time in a European Airlines and our path with Dani was crossed again. This time the accomplished commander was standing in front of me, the Cross qualified training captain with a humble heart who spoke about his loving and beautiful wife and his wonderful three kids and I know the world is in the right track.
Three years passed. One week ago, they have just celebrated the twins leaving the nursery, and a day later an article landed in my email with no explanation. It was clean and deadly: 'A light aircraft crashed in the Sea.' That was it. The Silence. The shock. The unbelievable. The breakage of the fairytale in the mid.
Somehow, somewhere I know that he was living his dream and followed it till the end. That is why he was called to an upper stage while he was already in the sky. He was a Man of duty and honor, living a life as a role model.
Why he was called all of a sudden? Who knows? The path of each individual is different. I believe we signed up ourself to what to accomplish in this life long before we were born. He accomplished it.
But he left behind a wonderful family, an adorable lovely lady, who became a mother, and the strongest pillar of the family of three little kids. I wish I could bring relief of any kind to process the memory of that 16 wonderful years, which has been astonished everyone who knew it, and I wish I could give strength for that transition what forming through that wonderful and vulnerable heart right now. But I do not know how. All I know is that 'HOPE' which was awakened by their pure existence and union is still there and it exists forward in Adri's beautiful and strong heart and in her children who holds that same essence of love.
R.I.P. Daniel Sebastian Czitan
